How a language tandem works

A language tandem is simple: two people who speak different languages help each other. You speak half the time in one language and half the time in the other – and both of you learn.

1. Find a partner

  • Post a tandem ad: what you offer (your native or strong language) and what you are looking for. Ads with a short, personal text get the most replies.
  • Search the ads by language and city, or browse the city pages and language cafés.
  • Write a message or use “Say hi”. Mention your level and when you are free.

2. Agree on the basics

  • Where: a café, a library or online by video.
  • How often: once a week for 60–90 minutes works well.
  • How to split the time: for example 30 minutes in each language, with a timer.
  • Corrections: should your partner correct you straight away or at the end? Say what you prefer.

3. The first meeting

  • Start with small talk: where you come from, why you learn the language, what you like doing.
  • Use our conversation topics if you run out of ideas.
  • Write down new words – in a notebook or a shared online document.
  • Meet in a public place and read our safety tips.

4. Keep it going

  • Bring something to talk about: a news article, a song, a recipe, a photo.
  • Be patient – your partner is learning too. Speak a little slower and ask questions.
  • If it does not fit, say so kindly and look for someone else. That is perfectly normal.

Have fun – a tandem is not a lesson, it is a conversation between two people.